“People often say that motivation doesn’t last.
Well, neither does bathing, that’s why we recommend it daily.” – Zig Ziglar
“There is little to be learned by doing nothing. When you conceive an idea in which you fervently believe, go after that idea – especially if people you respect believe it’s a good one. Hang in there and I’ll SEE YOU AT THE TOP!” – Zig Ziglar
Take a moment today to be thankful for the blessing in your life. Be thankful for your job, your family and friends, the roof over your head, the ability to read, and learn. There are so many things we take for granted each day. Look around you today and be thankful.
I am thankful for you. No one can ever take your place, you are unique, one of a kind. Only you have the ability to do the things you do the way you do them. Only you know all the people in your life that you can touch with a simple act of kindness. You can make a difference.
Cherry Coley (c)
“If you believe, really believe, then you will persist.” – Zig Ziglar
Life can get hard at times, especially when you are a single parent. There are days when working, trying to make ends meet, running all the errands, helping with homework, trying to keep up with everyone’s schedule and still have enough time to eat or rest seems next to impossible.
I can’t tell you the number of nights I collapsed into bed, exhausted and crying out for God to somehow hear me and make things easier or me stronger.
I believe He did both. There have been times when I didn’t know where our next meal would come from and a bag of groceries would be sitting in front of our door, or an envelope with a gift card to Walmart or Target.
We’ve had coworkers or neighbors offer rides and help when needed. We’ve had coats given, bags of clothes donated and our needs met when we didn’t think they would be.
There have been many days when the only thing to do was to put one foot in front of the other and keep on walking no matter the circumstances.
I have been laid off, and provided for until I found other work. Time after time we have lived through hardship, prayed, kept going by faith and things would work out the way they were meant too.
No one ever said life would be easy, if they told you that then they either have been lying or haven’t experienced life. Yet, life has a way of giving back what you put into it. Through the generosity of others we survived hardship and adversity and in turn were able to be generous and pass on the blessing when we could.
We are all here to help each other on this journey, never underestimate the power of a kind word or action, and when the going gets rough, just keep believing and persist in moving forward.
Cherry Coley ©
I saw this quote this morning and had to stop and really think about it. I have to admit, there have been times someone has kind of rubbed me the wrong way and I spent more time trying to see through them and what they were up too, and not just helping them along.
I confess to not being the most trusting person, though I do try to give people the benefit of the doubt, especially when I first meet them, but if they should betray my trust or lie to me in some fashion then it will take a long time and a lot of good experiences with them for me to begin to trust them again.
That’s not to say I am holding grudges. I am not a grudge holder in the least. I will, usually, forgive the action, but not be so willing to trust the person whole heartedly again. Grudges are hurtful and can cause the holder of the grudge to become bitter, angry and resentful. What’s more is the person you are holding the grudge against may not even know you are holding a grudge, so who are you really hurting?
It took me years to truly own the gift of forgiveness. Forgiveness is for you, trust is for them. You can forgive and live your life free of bitterness, anger and resentment, and then decide who you will trust and who needs to earn your trust again.
I choose the path of forgiveness because I refuse to waste my energy with wasted emotions like hate, bitterness, anger, revenge, and grudges. That’s not to say that those things are not justified at times and that I never feel them, because I do, but I choose what stays and what goes in my emotional bank.
It bothers me when I talk to people and they bring up some grudge they have been hanging on to for years. They get animated when they talk about it, their face turns red, their voice gets louder, anger flashes in their expression, and their whole demeanor changes. Stop and think about the changes that just took place in their body and what possible effects that could cause. I have known several people, filled with bitterness that are constantly plagued with one illness after another.
How we view others, respond to our circumstances, attitude and mindset have an impact not just on our mental health, but our spiritual and physical health too. Everything works together and if we are holding onto old baggage like grudges and hurts from the past, then we are holding on to a type of spiritual and mental poison that is affecting us every day, and having no effect on the person we’re holding the hurt against.
As for me, I am making it a point to discuss these type of issues as I come across them in my life. I would rather choose to help someone along and see them grow, succeed and be happy. Life is about celebrating milestones and learning to appreciate the things and people around us. It’s so much easier to do that and be aware of what’s going on when I’m not focused on something that happened a long time ago.
Cherry Coley (c)